solo men
Visiting Oasis Aqualounge as a Solo Man
Thinking of visiting Oasis on your own? You’re in the right place.
Whether it’s your first visit or you’re returning to Oasis, we look forward to welcoming you.
Choosing When To Visit
Solo men aged 19 and over are welcome to attend Oasis on Sundays, most Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays.
Please note: The fourth Monday of each month, along with a few additional Mondays throughout the year, is reserved for Sapphic Aquatica, an event exclusively for women, trans, non-binary, and two-spirit guests. Solo men and couples with men are not permitted to attend these events.
Admission is easy. You can purchase your ticket at the door using cash or a credit/debit card, or save time by purchasing your ticket online in advance.
Third Floor Play Areas
The third floor at Oasis features our semi-private play areas. Except on Tuesdays, solo men may only access these spaces when invited by a woman.
This policy exists because of feedback from the women who visit Oasis. While many women are comfortable playing in front of solo men, others prefer a more intimate atmosphere where only women and couples are nearby. To accommodate the diverse preferences of our members, we have created spaces that serve both experiences.
These restrictions apply only to the third-floor play areas. Solo men continue to have full access to many other play and social spaces throughout the club, including the Ballroom play area, the Dungeon, the pool and hot tub, the outdoor patio, the lower lounge and spa area, the smoking patio, and other shared spaces.
We want to emphasize that this policy is not a reflection of the behavior of our solo male members. Oasis has high standards of conduct, and we work hard to ensure that all guests treat one another with respect. Rather, the policy recognizes that the presence of solo men can create a different atmosphere, and not every guest enjoys the same environment for intimate experiences.
By offering both shared spaces that welcome everyone and designated spaces reserved for women and their invited partners, we aim to create an environment where a wide range of guests feel comfortable exploring their sexuality. We appreciate your understanding and cooperation as we strive to make Oasis an inclusive, respectful, and enjoyable experience for everyone.
Tips for Meeting Others at Oasis
The best connections at Oasis happen naturally. Rather than focusing on finding a partner, focus on enjoying the experience, being yourself, and meeting new people. Here are a few ways to get started:
- Join the Men’s Group on Tuesday nights. This informal discussion gives men in our community the opportunity to share advice, experiences, and practical tips on meeting women respectfully, starting conversations, and communicating openly about interests, boundaries, and compatibility.
- Watch our videos below. Our fun and educational videos offer guidance on making a great first impression, building friendships, reading social cues, and developing The Right Approach to meeting sexually compatible partners at Oasis.
- Subscribe to our newsletter and explore our blog. Stay up to date on upcoming events while learning from articles covering communication, confidence, relationships, consent, and ways to get the most out of your Oasis experience.
- Come for the experience—not with expectations. Some of the best connections begin over a conversation in the pool, while relaxing on the patio, during one of our workshops, or while participating in an icebreaker game. If your goal is simply to enjoy yourself, be approachable, and meet like-minded people, you’ll have a much more rewarding experience—and meaningful connections often follow naturally.
