solo men
Visiting Oasis Aqualounge as a Solo Man (without a partner), this page is for you.
Solo Men of all ages over 19 are welcome to attend Oasis events on Sundays, most Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays.
*The fourth Monday of each month, plus occasional other Mondays, is reserved for our Sapphic Aquatica event for women and trans only. Men are not permitted that day or evening.
You can pay at the door with cash or card, or you can pre-pay for a ticket online in advance.
The Third Floor at Oasis has the semi-private play areas. Other than Tuesdays, Solo Men are restricted from visiting the third floor play areas unless invited by a woman.
We put this policy in place at the request of the women who attend Oasis. Some women enjoy playing in front of solo men, while others prefer to play with only women or other couples nearby. Even on the days where third floor restrictions are in place, Oasis offers spaces where all guests, including solo men, can access including the ballroom play area, the dungeon, the pool, and outdoor patio, the lower bar and spa area, the smoking patio, etc.).
Please understand, it is not the behavior of solo men that the women are concerned about. Oasis works hard to ensure all guests are respectful. It is that having solo men nearby changes the atmosphere, and some women enjoy that atmosphere while playing, whereas others do not. So, we ensure there are play spaces available to all, as well as some spaces reserved for women and their invited partners only. We appreciate your understanding of these restrictions. Our goal is to make Oasis a fun and exciting atmosphere where it is comfortable for all kinds of sexual encounters to take place.
Looking for tips on how to meet women at Oasis? We offer many ways to help you learn to successfully interact With Members of Our Community and Lifestyle!
You could:
- Join an online dating and connection platform and attend some sexy online events. The 231 Mutual Connections Platform has a dating component where you can message others on the site that interest you. You can share racy photos and even interact by video.
- Attend the Men’s Group at one of our Tuesday Events, where men from our community share tips and advice on how to approach and meet women and navigate discussions about what each of you is looking for.
- Watch our fun and educational videos at the bottom of this page. They were designed to help solo men find The Right Approach to making friends and finding sexually compatible partners at Oasis.
